Lexington Family Law

Family Law Attorney in Lexington, MA

Guidance & Support for Your Family Law Journey

Dealing with a family law issue often feels overwhelming. Whether you are considering a divorce, navigating child custody, or dividing marital assets, you want step-by-step guidance from a family law attorney in Lexington who understands both the legal process and your personal concerns. At Ryder & Phelps, we help families gain clarity and move forward with confidence, always grounded in genuine compassion and deep experience.

Our attorneys, Kathleen Ryder and Jordan Phelps, are honored as Super Lawyers in Massachusetts and New England. Clients in Lexington trust our approach because we offer skilled representation and steady support through what can be some of life's most difficult challenges. When your children, home, or future are at stake, our goal is to provide the strong legal and emotional foundation you need to plan for the next chapter.

If you are unsure about your next steps, Ryder & Phelps is here to support you. Our team empowers you with honest answers, practical advice, and clear communication from your very first conversation.

Schedule your confidential consultation today by calling (978) 381-1660. We are here to help you move forward with confidence.

Why Families Choose Ryder & Phelps, P.C.

We know that choosing a family law attorney can be a defining decision for you and those you care about. At Ryder & Phelps, our attorneys stand apart with a unique blend of professional credentials and personal commitment to client success. Kathleen Ryder and Jordan Phelps are named Super Lawyers in Massachusetts and New England, a recognition awarded for legal skill and dedication to the best interests of their clients. Our office regularly represents clients in the Middlesex County Probate and Family Court, giving us insight into the specific processes and considerations that influence cases in Lexington.

Alongside our legal advocacy, our attorneys also serve as certified mediators and as Guardians Ad Litem, roles that require us to address family dynamics and children’s needs with sensitivity and care. We use this experience to help families resolve disputes both inside and outside the courtroom, tailoring strategies to suit your needs. Our reputation for approachability, thorough preparation, and consistent client communication makes us the choice for people in Lexington looking for more than just a lawyer—they seek an advocate who understands the full picture.

You will benefit from our local insight, our respected standing with the Middlesex County court system, and a supportive approach that keeps you fully informed and actively involved from start to finish.

Our Holistic Approach to Family Law

Family matters affect far more than legal status—they impact daily life, children, and future plans. That is why our team uses a holistic approach to family law, bringing legal strategy together with practical and emotional support. We treat each client as a whole person facing life changes, helping you understand not just your rights but your options for moving forward in a healthy and secure way.

We believe that legal problems do not exist in a vacuum. During your matter, we offer education alongside advocacy, making sure you know what to expect and how choices today can affect your future. Our attorneys regularly address ongoing co-parenting, the stability of children, and long-term financial security as part of our legal advice. This commitment to seeing the full picture gives you the confidence to make smart, lasting decisions for yourself and your family.

By combining legal guidance with empathy and transparency, we strive to reduce your anxiety and help you reach solutions that prepare you for what comes next.

Family Law Services We Provide in Lexington

Every family is different, and the legal services you need should reflect your circumstances. Ryder & Phelps offers a comprehensive suite of family law services for clients in Lexington, helping families at every stage of transition.

Our attorneys regularly assist clients with these family law matters in Lexington:

  • Divorce, including uncontested, contested, and high asset situations
  • Child custody, parenting plans, and protecting parental rights
  • Equitable division of marital property and debts
  • Child support and alimony guidance under Massachusetts law
  • Modifications of support, custody, or visitation orders
  • Dispute resolution and family law mediation

Most family cases from Lexington are heard in the Middlesex County Probate and Family Court. Our regular work there allows us to give practical guidance about local filing procedures, timelines, and what judges tend to focus on. For families looking to reach agreements through open conversation rather than a hearing, we offer mediation that can help maintain control and minimize conflict. Each service is delivered with compassion and designed for your needs today—and to support your future goals.




Guiding You Through the Family Law Process in Lexington

Navigating the steps of a family law case can seem daunting, especially if this is your first experience with the legal system. At Ryder & Phelps, we make the process clear by walking you through each stage, from initial consultation to resolution.

Your experience with our Lexington attorneys typically includes these steps:

  • Personal consultation: We listen to your concerns, help clarify your goals, and discuss next steps under Massachusetts law.
  • Strategy development: Our team outlines possible negotiation or litigation strategies, including the potential benefits of mediation.
  • Paperwork & filings: We handle all legal paperwork, communicate with Middlesex County Probate and Family Court, and monitor important deadlines.
  • Problem-solving: When difficult questions or conflicts arise—such as high-conflict custody or unusual financial matters—our certified mediators and Guardians Ad Litem provide creative solutions and steady support.
  • Resolution: We strive for a fair and enforceable outcome, preparing you for life after your case concludes.

Throughout your case, we prioritize clear communication, quick responses to your questions, and full transparency about the process. Our team remains by your side, helping you handle whatever challenges come up and always protecting your interests as you move toward a resolution.

Family Law Challenges Unique to Lexington

Legal and practical issues often have a local dimension. Our steady work with the Middlesex County Probate and Family Court brings insight into the challenges Lexington families commonly face. This includes navigating the court’s approach to parenting plans, understanding how local school districts and community resources may shape custody arrangements, and advising on co-parenting logistics that cross town lines.

When your family’s unique needs intersect with the specifics of the Lexington community or systems, you benefit directly from our firm’s local knowledge and relationships. Our attorneys consider the impact of local realities in every matter, providing solutions rooted in practical experience with the courts and institutions you encounter here.

Taking the Next Step: Talk to Our Family Law Team

Reaching out to a family lawyer can open the door to clarity and peace of mind. We welcome your questions and will treat you with dignity and respect from the start. When you contact Ryder & Phelps, you receive clear information about your options and personal attention from professionals who care about your future.

As recognized Super Lawyers with deep roots in Lexington and Middlesex County, our attorneys commit to privacy, responsiveness, and tailored solutions. We want every client to feel comfortable during their first conversation with us, and ready to take the next step. Contact us today to get started! 

  • “I never doubted your work and your understanding of my situation and the law.” - James
  • “It was a pleasure working with Jordan and the firm” - Megan
  • “10/10 would recommend Ryder and Phelps!” - Paul B.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    How do I choose the right family law attorney in Lexington?

    Selecting a family law attorney is often about finding both skill and genuine understanding. We suggest looking for attorneys who have independent recognition, such as Super Lawyer status, and who work regularly in Middlesex County Probate and Family Court. Our attorneys fit these criteria and add a personalized, holistic approach that supports you from both a legal and a practical perspective.

    Will your attorneys handle both the legal and emotional side of my family matter?

    Yes, we support clients with both legal representation and personal guidance. Our focus on holistic family law means we help resolve the legal questions while offering resources or direct support for the emotional and practical side. With roles as certified mediators and Guardians Ad Litem, our team has deep experience helping families handle these transitions as smoothly as possible.

    What sets your team apart from other family law lawyers locally?

    Our Lexington attorneys are named Super Lawyers, have experience as certified mediators and Guardians Ad Litem, and maintain ongoing involvement in the Middlesex County Probate and Family Court. These qualifications allow us to address your case with insight into the court’s unique culture, up-to-date local practices, and a proven track record of supporting families facing challenging transitions.

    How does mediation factor into family law in Lexington?

    Mediation is a valuable tool for families seeking to resolve disputes with minimal conflict and greater control over outcomes. Our firm includes certified mediators who support families in reaching agreements about custody, support, or division of assets outside of court. We discuss mediation with clients whenever appropriate and explain when it can help achieve your goals, offering it as a practical pathway right here in Lexington.

    How familiar are you with Lexington’s Probate and Family Courts?

    Our team regularly works with the Middlesex County Probate and Family Court and understands the court’s rules, timelines, and practices. This regular interaction means we can provide accurate advice about what to expect in Lexington family law cases and respond effectively to specific court requirements as your matter progresses.

    What should I expect in my first meeting with your family law team?

    Your first meeting is confidential and aimed at understanding your needs and concerns. We will listen, discuss your situation, answer your questions, and outline what the legal process may look like for you in Lexington. Our attorneys take care to provide clarity and reassurance in this initial conversation, helping you make informed choices about how to proceed.

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